I might be in the basement. I'll go upstairs and check.

Why is it always the same?

You always want what you can't have and then when you have it you don't want it anymore but at the same time you don't wanna anyone else to have either?
It's the whole "You can't eat the cake and have it too" - problem..

I wonder if it's just the plight of the modern person or if it's something in our genes that makes us want the cake and not share it . It's mine, mine, mine!
This problem can turn up in almost every situation from "it's my pen" to "it's my guy/girl even if I'm not in a relationship with him/her"

Why do we do it? why do we torture ourselfs instead of just moving on.. you know "been there, done that" and know move on. The big sentence: Move on ..Step by step, put one foot infront of the other and don't look back . No instead we whine and think of only the sweet, sweet memories because the bad memories, they are the ones we don't remember or don't wanna remember. There is this quote "Don't regret anything that made you smile" - and I agree, because it's not common to really smile these days and when I say really smile, I mean the smile that when you remember it you smile again just because.

But at the same time you can't have what you had and keep moving on too - the world and people doesn't work like that. So my conclusion is:

Even if you miss something or someone it's not good for you to live in the past of all the good memories and never move on and also not to forget the mistakes because if you forget all of that - you haven't learnt your lesson and that is what we do, right?
Learn our life-lessons and keep on walking..